So I haven't been on here in a while. Sorry about that. Life has been CRAZY. Last April when the boys were 18 months, we sold our 'starter' home and decided to build on our land that we had purchased a few years earlier. Come to find out, you life's a dance and you learn as you go. We had it all planned out. We were going to build a pole barn and put an apartment in it. We would then live there until we saved up enough cash to pay the majority of what it would cost to build our dream home. By my calculations, this would be about 9 years. haha! God showed us who was boss. We had to run electricity and water to the barn, to make it liveable, and Vectren quoted us 32,000 dollars. Additionally, Pike Gibson water quoted us 12,000 dollars to run water to the barn , and then septic was going to be 6,000 dollars. We were devastated. Since we had only a limited budget for these things, we ultimately gave up our dream of being debt free and chose to go ahead and build a house while the boys were young and could enjoy it with us. I feel more now (on closing day) than ever that we made the right decision.
However, the preliminary building process has thrown us many curve balls as well. Three builders, two banks, 10 months and a dozen house plans later, we are finally ready to build. We just signed our closing documents today. I still have many worries, and we have a lot on our plates, but we are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I have been proved that God has a BETTER plan than I could ever dream up and he knows what's best for a family. He has taught me to follow my heart and not my brain, and I will end up exactly where I need to be.
We are living our dream. When we first got married we decided that we wanted 15 AC with a huge pole barn for matt and a nice home for our kids. We took the long way around, but we are here, 15.33 ac, a 40x60 pole barn, and a house that (conversely from our original plans) is perfect for us.
As soon as we drive up our driveway, we feel a sense of peace about us. It is up a windy driveway to the top of a hill. It is the highest point around and the breeze is always blowing. There is not a care in the world when I am there. Every piece of the puzzle just falls into place...for all of us. Matt is often found with a bottle of water just sitting in a chair looking out over the reclamation ground across the road. The boys are digging in the dirt, driving their tractors, picking dandelions, whatever little boys are suppose to do, and I am peacefully cleaning, planning, and dreaming about how wonderful it will be to get to live here all the time. Every morning I will be able to wake up and walk out of my bedroom onto the patio and feel the breeze on my face. Every evening I will be able to make my family supper in a kitchen that is big enough for all of us to be together. Every day is a miracle. and I am so thankful to have what we have.
So as today is closing I will leave you with pictures of our bare property, and a few with the pole barn. Starting tomorrow things are bound to look different. I will be posting updates often to show the progress of our building. Stay tuned.......I can't wait to see what God has in store for us.